About 5 years ago, I went with my wife’s family on their annual pilgrimage from Arizona to St. Augustine, Florida.  My wife’s family has been going there for 2 weeks each summer for almost 15 years. On my first trip (really my second to St. Augustine – long story) we went as boyfriend and girlfriend and we came back engaged.  We’ve been back every year since then (except for 1 year when we were just about to have our oldest daughter…